My wife Gina has already placed her spin and story on this “Haole” relationship on the website already . So now it is my turn to let you all know what it is like to live on the “other” side of my lovely Asian/Hawaiian sweetheart.
I was born and raised in Ocean City New Jersey. That’s about 20 miles to the south of now famous Atlantic City (Trump town). Ocean city is about 2 miles wide and 12 miles long. We consider it an “Island” because we have 3 bridges that are the only way to get to the city. It is a “dry” city (non alcohol served) due to a hundred year law by our fore fathers/mothers. So if you wanted booze, well, you had to drive across the bridge to the other city to get it.
So I guess I already had something in common with me living on an Island(Gina from Oahu)..Well not really..Just kidding. I grew up living on Cheese steaks and pizza. And I mean that..This is all I ate as a child.An occasional Burger or two.Tasty kakes(yes with a K) were my favorite treats. NO FISH. Now living by the ocean one would think I eat fish..NO, not at all.My whole family did..But not me..Come to find out I was adopted at 6 days old.
So maybe, just maybe there is an answer out there somewhere as to my non fish eating ha/ha. Now I Like to fish, but felt really bad when my dad carved them up to eat(felt bad for the minnow too)..Crabs also..I was Traumatized as a child I guess.
The summer time was a blast.Nothing but Atlantic (dirty) Ocean from 7am to 5pm then the boardwalk until 10 or 11pm. Somehow I made my way out to Arizona 20 some odd years later.And then I met my little 5 ft Island beauty.
My Asian/Hawaiian princess.I couldn’t even remember any Asians when I grew up in the city(small town). As a matter of fact, I really don’t remember seeing any in New Jersey at all(unless they were tourists). Sheltered life man.
Anyways, when Gina and I first met she had what Hawaiians call the “aloha spirit”. She had the most outgoing personality from a person I had ever meet in my life. Not to mention she was the “hottest” women I had ever laid my eyes on.
Well, one thing led to another and these two opposites became attracted to each other. The rest is history(or a story). I will have more to say of this happy haole couple later..Great to be apart of this club.Good luck to all…..Joe Hays Arizona..Soon to be Hawaii……
